Would you like to feel more Confident in your Career?
‘How to have a Confident Career’ is a topic that I am regularly asked to be guest speaker on. It is also something that my Life Coaching clients often approach me for assistance with. Career Confidence is a popular topic! I also offer Career Coaching and Interview Coaching.
There is a lot written on books and on the internet about Confident careers, Confidence in the Workplace and the best method to become a more confident employee. In today’s Amazing Coaching blog, I will share with you some of my top tips that will make it easier for you to feel more confident in your career, from the inside out.
If you are familiar with my work as a UK Professional and Motivational Wellness Speaker, Confidence Coach and Author, you will recognise that confidence is an inside job. Therefore, it really doesn’t matter what or where your workplace is, you will always take yourself (and your lack of confidence) with you – even if you change employer frequently.
Confidence is an Inside Job
Remember, we all give off ‘Vibes’ and these are often unconscious. So, if you don’t believe in yourself or your ability to have a confident career, people will pick up on this around you – regardless of your actions. For me, feeling confident at work is far more important that your qualifications and research shows that those who appear more confident at work not only receive more respect from their employers, but are more likely to be offered the best career opportunities.
In my capacity as a Northamptonshire based Life Coach and Guest Speaker, I frequently work with a wide range of organisations. In my role, I have found that the key difference between confident employees and those who lack confidence in their career comes down to our own personal self talk and how we react to situations around us.
This includes how we react to criticism, our resilience, our ability to soothe and encourage ourselves when taking on new tasks and the belief that we have something to offer our employer. Our level of confidence will also affect the decisions we make throughout the day and in our career in general.
Tips for Career Confidence
1) Praise yourself daily. When was the last time you finished a day at work and congratulated yourself on a job well done? Self Praise boosts your inner confidence muscle and criticism pulls it down. Don’t be afraid to praise yourself internally and also, it’s perfectly fine to point out to your boss when you have accomplished something for the organisation. Self acknowledgement will build up your confidence muscle. Don’t wait for your boss to praise you – praise yourself!
2) Don’t be afraid to ask for what you want. Are you enjoying your work? Are there parts of your job that you would like to do more or less of? Do you need to organise a meeting with your manager to discuss your career? If you are feeling disempowered or resentful at work – don’t just complain about it – find the courage to have that all important courageous conversation.
3) Be ok with where you are in your career. Often our negative feelings or stress about our career all comes down to not being happy with where we are in our career and wishing we were somewhere different. Be ok with where you are and have a positive expectation that your career will progress well.
4) Focus on what you can do – not what you can’t do. You were employed because your manager thought you were valuable so own it! Write a list of your accomplishments in the past year and share it with your manager at your annual review.
A Final Note on not feeling Confident in Your Career
On a final note, if you career doesn’t feel good to you or satisfy you, it may be time to look for a new position that will align with your values, passions and strengths. Interestingly enough, I never felt confident in my past career as an accountant, but when I moved into being a UK Life and Confidence Coach, my confidence increased dramatically. This was purely because I had found a job that matched my own personal values and preferences. You can read more about my personal journey from Accountant to Award Winning Confidence Expert in a previous blog.
With over 20 years’ experience, Lisa Phillips is a Life Coach and Confidence Coach based in Northamptonshire, UK. She is the author of ‘ The Confidence Coach’ (Exile Publishing) and a popular Speaker and Trainer. For more information, please see www.amazingcoaching.co.uk or please contact Lisa for a no obligation chat.