10 07, 2020

Do you Blame Other People?

By |2020-08-15T23:38:47+10:00July 10th, 2020|Newsletters|Comments Off on Do you Blame Other People?

We all fall into the habit of blaming other people for our misfortunes.  We blame our partners for relationships that don't fulfil us.   We hold our parents responsible for our lack of confidence and we blame our boss for failing to appreciate the work that we do.  Ultimately, we blame other people for our unhappy lives. Many of us expend lots of energy [...]

4 11, 2019

Are you a Victim?

By |2020-08-18T23:59:56+10:00November 4th, 2019|Newsletters|Comments Off on Are you a Victim?

Ok, this blog may be a bit harsh.  Are you a victim? When working with my Life Coaching clients, I do find that even the very suggestion of the word ‘Victim’ can cause a lot of defensiveness! What is a Victim? Victim playing is blaming other people for your life, refusing to change and generally feeling like a victim!  Victims often complain about [...]

23 09, 2019

Blaming your Past

By |2020-08-18T23:44:39+10:00September 23rd, 2019|Newsletters|Comments Off on Blaming your Past

As we become more self aware of our behaviours, our programming and our negative beliefs, it is easy to start blaming the past for our current troubles. This could including blaming our family or bosses for our unhappy lives,  holding our parents responsible for our negative programming or blaming our lack of trust on a partner who betrayed us. Blaming Your Past I [...]

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